House Rules - The Best Seat in the House
- Gloria Hemphill
- May 19
- 2 min read

Limitless Leaders, think of your House Rules as your personal GPS: the principles, boundaries, and values that map out how you live. They guide your words, thoughts, behaviors, and choices. These rules are both deeply personal and universally relevant as we navigate our unique lives. They are definitely worth discussing as we walk through life.
This Seat Is Taken (Or Is It?)
In grade school, it was done alphabetically. Later, in high school and college, the choice was optional. Choosing a seat in life is more than just physical placement; it reflects our House Rules, the principles and values that guide us. Whether we sit at the front and embrace opportunities directly or settle in a quieter corner for reflection, each seat we choose represents our journey and the boundaries we uphold. This intentional act shapes our interactions, decisions, and how we move through the world. The seats we occupy help shape our experiences and our direction.
From Where We Sit
The flow of information we face as Limitless Leaders brings both challenge and opportunity. Our perspectives, shaped by the seats we occupy and the House Rules we follow, help us determine what to absorb, release, and act on. These principles serve as a compass, guiding us toward the insights that matter most to our true selves. As we lead, this clarity influences our decisions and those around us. Our unique perspectives contribute to a richer, more diverse collective understanding.
Excuse Me, May I Sit Here?
Do we feel a moment of irritation when someone disrupts our peace while trying to find their seat? As Limitless Leaders, we are called to show grace and compassion to those still finding their place. That journey often includes uncertainty, hesitation, and growth. Our experience can serve as a guidepost for others.
When we are grounded in our seats, we have the strength to support others. This includes listening closely, acknowledging their challenges, and sharing lessons from our path. Creating a space rooted in empathy and wisdom, we help new leaders feel safe enough to explore their voice, values, and direction. Our seats become more than personal spaces; they become mentorship, connection, and shared growth platforms.
The Best Seat in the House
For Limitless Leaders, occupying the best seat in the house reflects our dedication, clarity, and compassion. It does not signal superiority but rather a readiness to lead with intention and to uplift others along the way.
Embodying our House Rules, we create an environment where leaders feel equipped to make meaningful decisions. When we stand firmly in our values and invite others to do the same, we build a community rooted in care, courage, and collective success. In that space, the best seat in the house is not a destination but a shared opportunity to lead and grow together.
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